A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35
Have you seen the movie Dolphin Tales? It's a family movie about a
dolphin that loses his tail and hope until a kind man fits him with a
prosthetic tail. Anna Grace (who is almost 4) was fascinated with the dolphin
and other sea life but was especially fascinated when a disabled girl visits the dolphin. Why...she has only one leg. Anna
Grace asked question after question. Not wanting to make a big deal
about it I told her God makes all kinds of people and that is just how God
made her. She seemed satisfied with this answer until I told her I have a girl
in my class who has one arm.
Several weeks later, Anna Grace was playing with her Barbie dolls in the bathtub.
Some of her Barbie's belonged to me as a child...so they are a little old! As I
was closing the closet door, I heard, "Uh Oh!" Turning around, I saw Anna Grace holding a Barbie doll whose leg had fallen off. Immediately
she said, "She has only one leg like in Dolphin Tales...that's just how
God made her." Since then she has deliberately taken the leg off the
Barbie and made her disabled.
As I was helping her put her pajamas on tonight, I mentioned she would be coming to
work with me in the morning. Her eyebrows shot up and she said, "Can I
meet your student with one arm?" Honestly, I am a little worried. I'm a
little scared with her being four, she might say something in front of my
student...but I'm hoping she won't. We had a conversation about why that may
make my student sad. Let's cross our fingers.
She is so interested in the fact that God makes people with one leg, one
arm, no legs, and in all different varieties. Her innocence blinds her to the
nasty and mean comments that adults can sometimes make about people's
disabilities. When my four year old looks at someone who is different than
her...she doesn't think about what the person can or can't do...just that God
made that person different and He makes us all different.
I want to look at the world through my four year old's eyes. If we all
did..this world would be a kinder place.